However, there seem to be no So I started a new game in Warband as a non-noble female. I'm playing as a women, and I just got married. Once you've met one of the ladies and got the initial relationship from dedicating a tourney win and telling her how much you love her just stay away from her. Mount & Blade: Warband > General Discussions > Topic Details Marriage is the best thing about being female. In Mount and Blade: Warband, marriage is the simple concept of joining as one with an NPC for gain of love, land, respect, or booty. If you are not a noble and marry one, it makes you a noble.What are the benefits of marriage in Warband?